6 Ways To Keep The Sexual Spark Alive In A Long Distance Relationship

Long-distance relationships can be frustrating, especially with the absence of intimacy and meaningful conversations. 

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The biggest disadvantage of a long-distance relationship is missing out on physical intimacy. Your sexual life goes for a toss when you are in a committed LDR. Sometimes your timing does not match, things get miscommunicated, and you often get frustrated.

However, with the advent of technology and video calls, maintaining a long-distance relationship should not be that difficult. Here are a few tips that can help you keep the sexual spark alive between you and your partner.

Try Slipping Into Erotic Conversation

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Sex-ting is one of the few ways that will help you cut through the sexual tension between you and your partner. You can take the help of graphics or send erotic voice notes to get your sexual motors running.

It is also one of the best ways to communicate your fantasies, even the wildest ones, which otherwise you find difficult to try. You can get as kinky as you want.

Get Naughty With Images

This is a suggestion you must only try if you and your partner completely trust one another and are comfortable sharing naughty photos and videos of each other.

It will help you turn each other on even from a distance. You can then try masturbating and climaxing together.

Share Intimate Scenes

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If you are hesitant about sharing naughty images of yourself, you both can share clips of erotic scenes in porn or movies. You can communicate what you like, what you want to do to your partner, and get the conversation rolling.

Enjoy A Session Of Self-Pleasuring Together

With video calls through multiple applications, you can now connect with your partner face to face. You can lock yourselves in your rooms, ensure complete privacy and enjoy a session of self-pleasure while watching each other masturbating. Make sure you use apps that protect your privacy too. You can use toys for an enhanced experience.

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Play Kinky Games

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Fun and kinky games are not just for when you are together. You can also play them virtually. From ‘Never Have I Ever’ to ‘Would You Rather’, you can maintain the tension and excitement in your long-distance relationship.

Not only are these games fun, but they can also add an element of surprise to an otherwise mundane conversation. It allows you to explore your sexuality, know more about each other and have fun while living apart.

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Explore Each Other’s Bodies

Many couples find it a bit awkward to talk about their bodies, what they like and what they don’t. Sex-ting is a good way to talk about such subjects. You can explore your pleasure points and what excites you the most through your conversations even while apart.

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