Secrets Of 'Happily Ever After' Marriage Revealed!!

Every one of us has dreamt that a prince will come for you and you both will live happily ever after, just like in movies. Awww!! But the reality is quite different. Happily ever after requires a lot of work. In a country like India, many people walk into marriages when they are too young, and without knowing a thing about how to make a marriage work. While every pair is different, there are certain things which need to keep in mind. Here are some tips for a successful marriage, which you and your spouse can definitely pull it off!!

Never Go To Bed Angry

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Never go to bed is an oldie but definitely a goodie! Sort out your fights before going to bed and wake up with a clean slate and a fresh perspective.

Don’t Let Mood Affect Your Words

‘Words can’t be taken back’. We tend to say some bad things when we are angry or in a bad mood. It's not uncommon for people to take it out on their partners. You may be angry on your boss, colleague, or at yourself, but always remember not to take it out on your blameless spouse.

See The Best In Your Partner

Always focus on the good qualities of him. Seeing negative in each other is toxic for a healthy relationship. See the best in each other and you’ll not question why you were together in the first place.

Never Lose Your Sense Of Humor

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Whether it’s a pillow fight, tickling, doing a funny dance, or cracking a lame joke- just don’t afraid to be silly. Use humor as a way to keep your relationship healthy and fun. It’ll also help in maintaining the spark in your relationship.

Forgive And Forget

Not holding a grudge makes a marriage happy. Instead of playing the blame game, just forget about the fight and keep moving forward. Don’t dwell on garbage from the past.

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“Me” Time For Everybody

Everybody needs some me time. As it said ‘absence makes our hearts grow fonder’. Spending some time away from each other will make your partner crave for you!

Learn Your Partner’s Language

Learn your partner’s language and do what you can do for them. Appreciate the things they enjoy, even if you like it or not.

Unplug To Reconnect

Listening to each other and being mentally present when you spend time is very essential. Imagine you want to talk about something and your husband is watching tv or using his phone. So, if anyone of you is trying to have a conversation, put your phone down, turn off the tv, or keep your laptop aside, and pay attention to each other.

Look In The Same Direction

The two of you need to be working towards the same goal if you want things to work out. Your career paths may be different, but that doesn’t mean you can’t have the same goal! There are some common goals that you can work towards together, like, buying a home, sending kids to school, or kids marriages.

We all love our partners, so love each other, respect each other, take good care of each other and cherish every day you spend together!

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