It can be frustrating to be married to someone who is an introvert. You have probably invested a lot of energy into trying to get him to be more outgoing. Don't let different natures and personalities hamper your marriage. There are ways to dealing with every problem. And don't forget that there all kinds of people and everybody deserves a chance. Here are a few ways for you to deal with your introvert husband:
1. While there could be umpteen dissimilarities, there have to a few be similarities between you two as well. Explore all the similarities with your husband.
2. Respect an introvert’s rights, but do not give up yours. Being respectful of your partner’s needs, however, does not let them off the hook for respecting yours. If you really need your partner to come to the party for whatever reason, say it clearly that it is important for you. compromise is a two-way street.
3. It is a myth that they do not like to socialise. They Love Being Social. There are plenty of introverts who would jump at the chance to do something fun and social. But it's still going to tire them out, and they're still going to need to recharge. So if something fun comes up, don't automatically assume your introvert partner already has plans with footy pajamas and Netflix. Heck, sometimes we even throw the parties ourselves.
4. Introverts need solitude. So sometimes, you have to give them their space. Like we all do, introverts need it more than us. So a bit of compromise from your end is needed for sure.
5. Being an introvert doesn't necessarily mean you prefer to live your life like a monk on a vow of silence. They can be crazy fun people once they open up.
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6.For your introvert's birthday, for the perfect date, or for that long-overdue lover's vacation, it is best to go for small gatherings with close friends instead of giant surprise parties. Go for romantic dinner for two instead of nights at the club, or go visit museums and cute flea markets instead of crowded malls and hot spots.
7. Introverts like to be social on their own terms. Some of them need to conserve their social energy at all costs, including avoiding small talk. If you're taking your introvert partner to meet some strangers, take the wheel and do the small talking.
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