You may have found the love of your life, having the best time ever with him and looking forward to a bright future with him. But is he? He may not be ready to name this relationship between you to or is just not ready to accept you as his girlfriend yet. See, getting a guy to commit to you is a real tough task. But well, here are some easy tricks that will help you make him commit to you.
Act Disinterested
So, there is this thing with guys. Once they start smelling that you want them to get into a relationship with you, they keep finding ways to run out of it and try to get rid of you. If you act clingy, he will take it as desperation and just bring it all to an end. If you want his attention, act as if you have completely lost interest in him. Stay busy with your work and stuff and let him chase you for attention. In this case, he will keep wondering what happened to you and this may make him commit to you.
Don't Talk About Commitment
If you have been in love with each other for a long time now, you may have reached to a point where you want to finally to get into a committed relationship with him but probably he is not! Don't talk about getting committed every single day. This will leave him irritated and he may start giving second thoughts about it. Don't burden his shoulders with the word 'commitment'. Let him be the way he wants to and there will come a time when he will understand your importance in his life and finally get ready for commitment.
Stop Being Predictable
There comes a point in love when you two get so close that you know everything about each other. In fact, he knows you that well that he can predict your actions. If that's the case, it is time you shake the things out. Don't serve everything on his plate. Try things that he doesn't expect you to do and this doesn't mean you have to be rude or something. You can switch to a different look to catch his attention or go off the communication for a day or to with him so as to build that urge in his heart to get closer to you. This will also stop him from taking you for granted.
Hint Him About Other Guys
To make him realize that you are the girl for him, you will have to play a little. Hint him about other guys hitting you. You can also fake that you have started developing an interest in someone. With another guy taking away your attention, your man will finally start having the fear of losing you and he will share his true feelings for you. This may make him take the next step.
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