If your boyfriend or husband becomes offended whenever you accuse him of cheating, then it's a red flag. It is not necessary that all men cheat. There are a lot of good guys out there who won’t hurt you, but you have to ditch the cheater as soon as you find out. If you’re looking for signs that he is cheating on you, then here are a few points that you could check on:
Changes In His Predictable Everyday Behaviour
After spending time with someone for a long time, you do know their behavioural pattern. You know how they act in certain situations, but when they act differently you want an explanation. However, you have to decide for yourself if the explanation is convincing. If it is not the case and once you have a doubt, keep a check on all his moves. You cannot be Sherlock Holmes but it will not really be rocket science to track the liar.
Has Unpredictable Mood Swings
Being angry in an instant or being overly nice is a red flag, unless that is a part of his personality since day 1. If he is acting unlike himself, then ladies there's no real reason for him to leave, so he has to create one. New activities, like going out all the time (but never mentioning it until afterward) is a clear giveaway. Check for cues.
Rapid Changes In Weight Or Appearance
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Is he suddenly working on his looks? His extra weight has dissappeared, the posture has changed and the muscle tone/definition is back how it was earlier? Well there are two explainations to this. First could be that he wants to revive the relationship which he somewhere feels is going down hill, and also the fact that he loves you so much that he is ready to do anything for you. Second reason is the ticker here. He is doing this image makeover but is cutting off from you and not pampering you then maam it is a definite sign that he is busy somewhere else.
Overnight Changes In Musical Taste
There's nothing wrong with trying new things. But when it's out of the blue and he excludes you from the change, it's one of the warning signs that he's cheating and something is wrong.
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Suddenly Needs A Lot Of Privacy
Taking time out for yourself is normal and important for a human's well being, but when it's not falling in the normal pattern, it's a sign that something is brewing. Don't just jump onto conclusions yet, do a bit more digging. Be affirmative before you ruin a surprise he has been planing for you with love. If such is not the case, be strong an confront him.
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