Are you are super romantic and always wanted a partner or a husband who is just like you, takes you out, does small romantic things but doesn't? Don't worry, here are some tips that we feel will help you deal with that unromantic partner. However, we would like to add that do all these things with an open heart and not just for the sake of it. Till when can you lie? Might as well give it your all right?! Let's get started.
Be Honest
Like we said before be true to yourself and to your partner. Nobody is a mind reader unless you share that kind of telepathy. Maybe he does not realise that you want him to take you out for romantic dinners etc?! Nothing is obvious so talk to him or her. Leave no stone unturned.
Quit Nagging
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Fine, he is not romantic but your constant nagging will not help really. He might just be unromantic in expressing. Nagging will not get you anywhere ladies. You may even push him or her away with your constant forced guilt trip!
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Never Compare
We know this but often give into this really wrong attitude of making comparisons. When you compare your partner to others, you are telling them that others are doing a better job! It’ll be a critical blow to the ego.
Initiate Romantic Surprises
He or she doesn't do it then why are you waiting? Do it yourself! Plan something romantic yourself! Probably this will show your partner how it is and what you like?!
Romance Is Not Just Chocolates or Teddy Bears & Wine!
Yes maam, romance is not just all that typical. It could be in your trek, in that game you guys love. In music, in that time you spend with each other. In that 'garam chai' they make for you or the gesture of helping out where you least expected it!
Compromise Madam
If he loves sports, atleast try to give it a shot. He/ she wants you to come to an event you know you will get bored at, it's okay if you do something just to make him or happy. They love video games then cheer them on, make some snacks or something to that effect. Don't just stand brooding!
Appreciate
Let him/her know how you appreciate all their efforts, no matter how big or small. They will know whether they are on the right track or not.
Understand That They May Never Change
If he lacks romance and you have tried it all... just buy the fact that things will be like this. It may not change. Some people are just programmed that way. In the end, relationships are more than flowers and candlelit dinners. But if things are not fitting for you... then perhaps you should move on or go to a counselor for a third opinion perhaps.
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