8+ Sexist Comments Women Are Tired of Hearing: Let's Change This On Women’s Day 2025

This Women’s Day, we’re not just celebrating achievements; we’re shedding light on the everyday struggles women face. We spoke to women from all walks of life- working professionals, single mothers, students, and more to highlight the sexist comments they’re tired of hearing.

It’s time to acknowledge these harmful narratives, challenge them, and work toward a future where women no longer have to fight for the basic dignity they deserve. Here are 8+ sexist comments women are tired of hearing and why all of us must call them out and change the conversation.

Sexist Comments Women Are Tired of Hearing

“You should get married soon because your biological clock is ticking.”

This outdated remark reduces a woman’s worth to her ability to marry and have children. It reflects societal pressure on women to follow traditional life paths, ignoring their ambitions, skills, and personal choices. Women today want to be seen for who they are, not their marital status.

“I can learn driving, but I’ll be bad because women are bad drivers.”

Rooted in gender stereotypes, this comment portrays women as incapable of tasks traditionally associated with men. It’s time to erase these misconceptions and celebrate women who excel in every field, whether it’s driving, coding, or leading a team.

“Your boyfriend allows you to wear that?”

This remark undermines a woman’s autonomy, suggesting that her clothing choices should be dictated by a partner. Women are free to express themselves as they choose—no permission needed.

“Are tu kya karegi cricket dekh ke, kuch samajh to ayega nahi.”

This dismissive comment assumes women can’t understand or appreciate sports. It excludes women from spaces they enjoy and diminishes their passion and knowledge.

“Shadi ke baad karna sari mauj-masti, ‘apne ghar’ jao fir jo marzi karo.”

This reflects the outdated idea that women’s independence ends after marriage. It reinforces the notion that a woman’s identity is incomplete without a husband. Women must be free to live their lives on their own terms.

“As a woman, your career is a hobby, not a necessity.”

This comment trivialises women’s hard work and achievements, implying that their careers are secondary or optional. Women’s careers are just as vital to their self-worth as those of men.

“Cannot give flat on rent to single mothers. We don’t know the kind of men you’ll have over as guests.”

This stereotype unfairly paints single mothers as untrustworthy or promiscuous. It reflects deep-rooted biases that women, especially single mothers, are not capable of maintaining respectable households.

“Is it that time of the month?”

This classic sexist remark reduces a woman’s emotions or discomfort to her menstrual cycle. It dismisses her concerns, implying she’s irrational or overly emotional. Women want their feelings to be taken seriously, not blamed on biology.

Rape Threats on Everything

One of the most disturbing forms of casual sexism is the threat of violence or rape. Whether online or in person, these comments make women feel unsafe and serve as a constant reminder of the risks they face. This behaviour must stop.

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“Not All Men”

This comment deflects criticism of male behaviour by generalising the issue. Instead of addressing real problems like sexual harassment and misogyny, it forces women to defend an entire gender. It’s a diversion from the real issues that need attention.

“You’re Just Being Overdramatic”

Women often hear this when they voice concerns or speak out about important issues. Dismissing their thoughts as “overdramatic” invalidates their feelings and silences their voices. Every woman deserves to be heard and taken seriously.

“She Was Asking For It”

One of the most harmful comments blames victims of violence for their own assault. It shifts responsibility from perpetrators to victims, reinforcing harmful ideas about victim-blaming. Women want a society where perpetrators are held accountable, not the other way around.

“You're Too Emotional for a Leadership Role”

This reflects the outdated stereotype that women are too emotional or unstable to lead. Women in leadership roles are just as competent and capable as their male counterparts. These discriminatory assumptions need to end.

“Nice Girls Don’t Speak Up”

This old saying encourages women to stay silent, particularly when they have important things to say. It perpetuates the idea that women should conform to societal expectations and be agreeable at all costs. Women should be empowered to speak up without fear of judgement.

These sexist comments may seem harmless to some, but they are deeply ingrained in society and continue to undermine women’s independence, ambitions, and personal choices. As we celebrate Women’s Day 2025, it’s time to stop tolerating such remarks and start creating a more respectful and inclusive environment for women.

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