Five Things You Should Never Do After Breaking Up With Your Partner

We all go through hard times in life. Sometimes because of situations, while others because of the choices we make in our lives. One such decision remains to choose who we want to spend our lives with. The task is not easy and makes us walk on the toughest path, which can also lead to failure and devastation. Breaking up with someone you once loved can be hard and can make you extremely emotional. However, there are a few things that you should never do to your partner after parting the ways, no matter what! The important thing to realise here is impulsive decisions can cause hamper your impression and can become reason for life-long regret. So, here are the things that you do not have to do if you are going through a break-up.

Isolate Yourself

While processing and grieving your break up is fine, it doesn’t mean you need to do that alone. Shutting the world away is not the right and the healthiest way to deal with something that is making you sad. You must talk about your feelings and emotions to your friends and family. Also, do not feel that they want to know about your feelings. However, if this doesn’t help note your feelings and emotions in a diary, because the key is to let your feelings out and move on.

Self-Destruction

This might sound cliché, but you only got one life and it’s not worth wasting. Do not indulge in self-destructive habits such as drinking alcohol, consuming drugs, gambling, looking out for other intimate partners or not getting out of bed. Instead of wasting your worth, channel that energy into something productive. Join the gym or go for running, invest your energy into things that will give you happiness.

Trying Being Your Ex’s Friend

This is the last thing you want to do, especially if you two parted the ways recently. You need no ask him to be friends with you because you need to move forward by not simply sticking around him. This doesn’t mean search for new partners, but simply give yourself time to process everything – the good and the bad. Also, if he asks you to be his friend, kindly take your stand and let yourself mourn the end of something that was close to your heart.

Plotting Revenge

Despite the fact that you have deeply been wronged, you need to find a way to be the bigger person. You can take cues from Kareena’s Jab We Met’s character, Geet. Burn his pictures and stuffs toys. But, do not do things that can lead you to legal charges. Trying to make things even, won’t bring you any sort of satisfaction. In the end, you will still remain miserable. The only difference will be, you might end up feeling guilty.

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Pretending To Be Fine

It’s okay to cry and feel miserable. But, what is not okay is to hide your feelings and keep saying “I’m okay”. Do not let your pride come in between. Humans are an emotional being, and it is imperative to let those feelings out. Punch your pillow, watch soap operas, eat chocolates, do whatever, but try not to pretend things that you’re not feeling.