Questions To Ask Your Dating Partner Before Becoming "Exclusive"

With the rise of dating apps, daters do not seem to have a dearth of options. This can make many wary about settling down. As more and more dating apps are coming up in the dating scene, the dating pool is becoming increasingly big. In the face of such an overwhelming number of choices right at your fingertips, it can be difficult to choose that one person even if you happen to like them. Moreover, it is likely to end up with the wrong person if you are not careful with your choice.

Well, if you happen to have found that one person that you’ve connected with really well. If they make you laugh and if they happen to just know the right way to comfort you, the next step is to make it exclusive. While being exclusive with someone you like might sound extremely exciting but to save a heartache later you must test the waters.

So let’s take a look at the questions that you need to ask your partner before becoming exclusive with them.

Know Their Life Goals, Desires And Dreams

Do you really want to wait three years to find out that your guy's main ambition in life is to win the spicy hot wing challenge at your favourite restaurant? Dating a guy with no aspirations will almost always lead to problems as your relationship progresses, so it's crucial to have a clear understanding of where he sees his life going right from the start.

Ask Questions On How They Handle Stress

Understand what leads him to get extremely uneasy and what triggers him. Everyone has terrible days, but if something as minor as a misplaced order of his books is enough to set him seething in anger, he may have some anger issues that will later prove to be damaging to your relationship. Life will not always be a stroll in the park, so if the two of you handle stress calmly and still find ways to cooperate with each other, then you'll be able to deal with life's major challenges later on.

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Understand His Love Language

The author Gary Chapman suggests there are five love languages that people can use to express and understand the emotion of love. The languages of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, receiving gifts, and touch are among them. Knowing your love language makes a world of difference. If you understand what makes your partner feel content, appreciated and loved then your new relationship has a much better chance of lasting.

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Before you were dating, you probably received flirtatious text messages throughout the day, followed by a phone call at night. However, as you agree to be in an exclusive relationship and you get used to being together, then other things will gradually start to take precedence. Talking about how much communication you expect from him before you begin a committed relationship might save you a great deal of anxiety in the future.

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